It IS Trickin If You Got It

Rappers are running around, giving ill advice to men. Shit, they've been doing that for years. The recent damage is in a popular phrase, "it ain't trickin' if you got it," meaning that if you have a lot of money, and you spend it on a chick, it doesn't matter if she is using you because you have the money to spare. That philosphy is flawed, to say the least.

Let's look at the anatomy of a trick. A trick is a man who stupidly, yet lavishly spend money on a woman in order to secure sex or attention. From a woman's perspective, she doesn't care if you "have it" to spare or not; she just wants the money. Most tricks are men who wouldn't normally be attractive to women, if it wasn't for his money.

Tricks are usually men who:

• used to be nerds, and have turned their smarts into some kind of IT or engineering career and now have money to buy all of the pussy they were scared to smell in high school


• used to be lame before they came into a whole lot of illegal money and now brandish their doe and the fact that they are drug dealers, or rappers who work for drug dealers, by "hanging over the wall in VIP," buying all the pretty girls drinks and eventually Coach bags


• are old men who have worked 40 years, have a pension and nothing else to spend their money on besides young pussy

So in all of these cases, the tricks must compensate for the fact that they have no real swagger, with money. There is nothing wrong with trying to impress a woman you are fond of. Dinner, a couple drinks, some meaningful presents are all good, when they accompany real feelings. But if the only thing you want from the chick is sex and bragging rights, than it IS trickin', especially if you got it.

Because men with no money are way more selective of who they spend money on. If you know your budget is limited, then you won't be buying ever phat ass and her girls a drink. You will pick the one you have the best chance with, polish up your game, a purchase ONE drink. After the man knows he has more of a 50 percent chance of having sex with her...then dinner.

Tricks will buy a whole crew of girls drinks AND breakfast AND ride them around in their Hummer (or whatver the ballers are driving these days). They will brag about their degrees or all the rappers they smoked weed with. But when it's time to seal the deal, and get some sex, a lot of the times they fumble. And if they do luck up and get some, she's faking it. She's faking it because she knows she can see all parts of your wallet, in exchange for some dull sex.

So don't let T-Pain, Lil' Wayne and them tell you that just because you have money, you ain't a trick. You are the trick! You are the dude that hoes look out for in the club. The reason why any woman with any ounce of game never brings money to the club! Besides, look at T-Pain...do you really think women would love him if it wasn't for the money??