I prefer sexy women...

...and not in that Lil' Kim/Flavor of Love/ass all out kind of way. I just really dig chicks who embrace their femininity as a strength, and not something that hinders them.

In some fields of work, being feminine can be seen as a hinderence. Or a tool for unworthy praise. Like hip hop. Some women look to surpress their femininity in order to be taken seriously. And I can understand why. Many prominent women in hip hop don't even write their own lyrics. They rely on their entertainment value, and boost that up by tootin their asses out and too much cleavage and makeup.

But there is a certain feminine quality that is personal and sexy. When a woman is comfortable in her own skin, knows her own strengths. A woman who can display her talent, yet engage folks with her inner self. That's sexy.

I went to see an upcoming singer the other day. And she had it all. She could blow. She could rock the crowd. Her song selection was dope. But she was so not sexy. She wasn't conscience at all of her look, her walk, her smile. Her hair had no personality. Her voice was powerful, never soft. And at the one time she told the audience she was about to get sexy, it was still a little forceful.

One mustn't be overt to be sexy...

...I guess the litmus test would be, women want to be here, men want to be with her. Sexiness is a quality, not based on the amount of skin and lewdness. But an attitude of uniqueness. I prefer to see women who are sexy in their own way, because it shows their comfortableness in their skin. All women have that to their advantage.